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does anybody know if my husband can get a little financial help for caregiving in the state of tennessee? I know a lady that draws 317.00 a month taking care of her husband but under different circumstances.I am also thinking n firing my lawyer do youns think thats wise its almost at the end of the case it has been 2 years and all i like is a mental evaluation and then he has to make a decision.But they will not help with the caregiving ,they are rude and i find out the answers before they do.Thanks

How did you get your disability in 2 weeks it had to be god with you.I pray all the time and it seems like its just my luck something goes wrong.If they put it on hold but it looks like ive been diagnoised so it should be over.I am calling everybody monday.Social Security,lawyer,senetor anybody i can thinnk of this is bull hockey.I have been so discusted,cryed and felt like i have loss my whole world.I thought i was coming so close.

Reply to Schmidy,
I am going to call my lawyer and ask why it was put on hold and my physical wasnt.I went to my physical in Sept and they said i didnt need to be ther because of the cancer.Why now for the other doctor they was suppose to make a decision this week.Thats probably why.I am going to be crazy by the tiime they get done.Im going to see if i can avoid this dr and go on since it has not been done already.I still dont know why this one was put on hold would not of cared a bit if it would of been before my hearing.Thanks for the advise.

Well my day started bad as usual this bone disease wakes me up around 430 every morning,i cant get up no morning with out help.but getting use to it.so after i took my meds and laid around a while i got to felling a little better.The disability office was suppose to make a decision next week,well instead of that i got a letter from the judge i have to go to a consulative examination.I took one in Sept for physical.The judge had put off a mental one.This better not be mental after they are suppose to make a decision it has been 2 years and i have cancer.They was 14 more bills in the mail with this .I have multiple myeloma,which is a blood disease.I cant understand what is going on with this case.I talked to social security and my lawyer which isnt worth a dime.Do i still have to take the mental part before he can make a decision? does anyone know.I have just cryed all day.This is so discusting after they said i would get a decision next week.I have even got ahold of a senator.Lamar Alexander not heard from him yet.What do i do,does anybody have any advise?I am so depressed today and will be till monday and probably after cause they will probably make me go and take the test for mentally after the judge put it off.I believe my lawyer put it off.Can i get diability without seeing them.I seen the physical goverment doctor and she laughed and wondered what i was doing there after they had diagnoised me with cancer.HELP I also need help with my teeth also they are all falling out piece by piece and my glassed dont work any more after i had a seizure over pain and this cancer causes my eyes to get worse before all this they were 40/40 now i can imagine what they are.I guesss its just a bad day.Hope everybodys turned out better than mine.I couldnt get ahold of noone today everything was closed.I hAVE HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE AND I SURE BET IT WAS UP WHEN I GOT THAT LETTER.LOL

This is to schimdty, you are very nice person and i am a litle shy dont want to step aon other people toes.I have a blood cancer disorder and it seems to be getting worse but i just think about all the childern and adults that have it worse off than i do.It is Thanksgiving and my husband woke up in a bad mood which does not make thing any better it gets me mad and then i try not to feel sorry for myself i know he has a hard time to and the stress of bils pillling up but it is hard to think im just a burden to him.I am 48 and never thought i would be in this shape i thought i would still be working.I called ss office and my lawyer had let my decision expire but ss said they would try to get it fixed its like i just cant get no help in no way.I have asked for clothes everywhere but no responce.Someone was looking at this aidpage and in it i said my biggest dream was to get to the ocean before God took me in to his arms.Surprise i got a email this morning and i think they are going to trry to make my dream come true.I need alot more than that it was just a dream but it sure would be a good one.So that shows me just dont give up because i was about there.And the words of you and starshine influince me alot.She suggested heating assistance my husband applied so i hope we can get it.The senetor Lamar Alexander is looking into my case on ssi.So maybe things are getting betterCancerCare is also goign to try to help us get gas back and forth to the hopital for treaatments.I have to have a bone marrow transplant and have to stay a litle while in nashville tn which is about 1 1/2 hours from here so we have to find a place to stay for a little while im not sure how long but im dreading it.But i am going to think positive we will make it.god will take care of us.HAPPY THANKSGIVING to everyone oon this site and hope everyone is having a good one.We are cooking ham and a few things just us 3 there is a man that lives with us he had no where to go he is a truck driver so we opened our home up to him.I try to help people if i can possibly.God Bless to all and have a good day.

Thanks Starshine,
I hate that you will be alone for thanksgiving,you could come to my house if we lived closer im in Tn so its impossible and i understand it will probably be your first one with out your cat and that makes it even worse.But thank God your here and have friends on aidpage like me for one,You have helped me so much.I have family but i feel so bad i guess it will just be me and my husband and thank God for him and my poodles.I just hopoe my pain goes away fr a little while they have me on pain meds but im trying to do with what i got i do not want to up them and get hooked on them but i may have to call the doctor its not hurt like this since i sarted taking radiation not sure whats going on.But i want to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving and i will be here for you tomarrow also.We maybe cant be together litterly but we can be here for each other.God bless you and Big Hugs for you.I have a big heart i wish i could be there in person for you.Breaks my heart for someonre to be alone on the holidays.But your not alone you have God and other friends.Happy Thanksgiving again.

Talking to God is the first and last thing i do when i wake up or go to bed.Alot of times during the day.I feel if i complain t my huband he is evencially get tired of hearing it.He is a good man but it may upset less if i didnt talk about it.I try to keep my sirits up but boy it is had.Oe day im fine and the next is awful.Mentally and physically.I just thank the Lord for being here every morning for my huband and kids and grandchildern.When i am upset i think about the ocean i was telling Starshine.It is tranquil and peaceful.I do have poodles which makes things better.Or to me they do.I have myeloma cancer, which is a blood cancer disorder it is very rare.They are making progree on the treatment.I have no idea of how you feel not nowing what is wrong with you.But i will pray for you and God Bless you for getting back with me.

Need a vacation.Someone donate a getaway.It woud be so fine.I am scared to deatha t the moment and need to get away befoer i start my chemotherapy and get ready for a bone marrow transplant.They aer saying i have 3 years to live and one thing i would like to do is got to the beach Myrtle Beach.My father-in -law said he would pay for gas consideriing we are in tn.I like to fell on=ver.I know they are thousands of cabins and condos and hotels near the beach.Please think on this if you own property plus it would be a good advertisment for your place.Tax deductable and can go in the winter doent matter to me at this point.I know this is a big dream but i had to write it and get it off my mind.They are just 2 of us.Thank you for reading this very untrue dream of mine.God Bless everyone.This would be one of my last true dreams come true.I financially have it almost under control with all the people that cares out there.I am going to get straightened out and my last dream is to help people with things like this.Thank you This is what was on my heart and mind today.

I am in need of a building someone will donate for a beneifit,auction and dinner in Crossville Tn.It is for a 48 yr old women that has cancer.It is really got us in a bind with the hospital and dr bills not including medicines it has added up to over 40,000.00 with no income coming in.There are some people getting this together and all they need is a building Janurary 22 from 11-4 or 5.I thought i would try to help get the building at least.I cant get around to do nothing else.I have plasmactomy-myeloma.It is a rare disease that effects my back bone.Alot of pain in my legs and back and knees.If you happen to know of a building or church in this area please let me know.

I live in Crossville Tn and i have alot of household item that i need to go through and get rid of.If anyone needs some let me know.My husband will be going through it soon.Different things. i have alot of extas laying around if you live close.We are also having a hard time financially i just been through radiation and added up 40,000.00 and still have chemo and bone marrow transplant.If you also live close my family is having a benifit, auction Jan 22 we are looking for a building to have it in If anyone knows of a place please let me know.